My wife’s boss was also going through a bad patch with his wife so he and my wife would confine in each other. You disclose personal details about your relationship/marriage, including sexual material to your office spouse.

Eventually she admitted to me about what was happening between them and told me that she hadn’t had sex with him and that it was only flirting messages.

Do you really think she can/will say 'we need to stop' and he will just transform to the professional that knows boundries?

Whether you reconcile or not will depend on HER actions, level of remorse, whether you feel you got the whole truth, what is she going to do to build trust etc. At the beginning of 2017 I started questioning my relationship as i had a gut feeling that something wasn’t quite right between us and it was around that time me and my wife was going through a bad patch. I'm sorry to hear your having a bad time of things at the moment too and I hope you meet the right person and everything works out for you. They text after work and at all hours of the night, I've even caught her texting him when she was supposed to be having a romantic dinner, alone with me.

Every time I try to sit her down and have a calm conversation with her about all this, we just end up arguing and I end up on the couch, she thinks I'm overreacting and she even claims that maybe I'm being a little insecure about the fact that she now earns more than me. If per chance there is something not business like going on, sharing a room for example, you have every right to say not going to happen, she needs her own room or shared with another girl, but I'm assuming that's not the case. Former Man City starlet and Premier League defender announces shock retirement on 27th birthday after. It near ruined me and I made the mistake of trying to work on things until a year went by and I grew to resent her. That said, if the majority of signs listed above apply to you, consider this an opportunity to get real about your situation.

Tried being nice and putting my foot down but we just end up arguing and she always has to have the last word. Consider filing for divorce if for no other reason than to make your wife understand just how serious this situation is. I am already the one in control in my workplace, and it's actually refreshing to cede Control when I get home, like getting a balance in my life. You may have even shared these thoughts with your office spouse; a person who encourages the idea of a split. By the sounds of your post, she has free reign to do whatever and whoever she wants and you can just HOPE that isn't the case.

Mainz left 'surprised' by Anwar El Ghazi's statement in which he said he had 'no remorse or regret' over pro-Palestine post. Since she's embarked on her journalistic endeavor, Giedrė has over 600 articles under her belt and hopes for twice as much (fingers crossed - half of them are about cats). No one can get you out of this mess until you decide you’ve had enough and stop all this weakness and take back control of your life.