Your whole body coming alive has a big impact on how open your Yoni will feel for the massage, and what will you get out of it in the end.

If there have been any negative sexual relationships, or sexual abuse, then the Yoni absorbs even more trauma. And through this experience you learn how to create that special sexual energy on your own in your sex life to continue this flourishing. You will cum, you will cream, you will squirt, and your body will convulse with such intense pleasure it will blow your mind.

As anecdotal evidence suggests, most people find yoni massage to be an emotional journey rather than a sexual one. Yoni massage is not simply a hands-on technique but involves the conscious direction of energy throughout the body through deep breathing and visualization.

It may have a psychological feel-good effect of being honoured and respected, but it is also important to ensure that the touch itself is not just standard stimulation but is able to create a truly different experience of your sexual energy, on the Tantric level.SEXUALITY / RELATIONSHIPS Yoni is the Sanskrit word for the female genitalia, describing not only the anatomy but also encompassing the energetic and spiritual dimensions.

It runs along the front of the body from the tip of the tongue over the throat and down over the pubic bone, ending at the perineum. We approach orgasm when the two poles of tension (yang) and relaxation (yin) reach their climax and thus push toward a resolution--the orgasm--the melting of the two poles. Massage, breathing exercises, curiosity, and a willingness to experiment greatly support this experimental process.We can balance these extremes within ourselves by becoming more aware of the flow and effects of our internal energy. Most women by default have an unrealised potential in the Yoni, which then becomes further blocked through a normal, or a negative, sex life.

While clitoral stimulation is great foreplay for sexual intercourse, a body massage or tantric breast massage is a great warm-up for the yoni massage. I’ve worked with lots of women with extensive trauma who had a perfectly fine and sensitive vaginal experience during sex. Within every woman, there lives a powerful force, filled with good instincts, passionate creativity, and ageless knowing. The author explains that the relegation of this important spiritual and energetic center to a "private part" hinders the process of enlightenment.

Do this on both sides of the shaft, keeping in mind that some people are more sensitive on one part of the clitoris than another.