My partner George has become more strict about my attitudes toward household chores and toward him and some of his friends. To quote my mother talking to my father, "If you ever lay a hand on me, you better not ever go to sleep. We had discussed maintenance spankings and decided to use them instead of relying on severe punishment spanking. You could nag and complain, or give them the silent treatment, or stop doing what you usually do for the family, or withhold money or information, or refuse sex, or talk bad about them to your friends. An-Nawawi said, " He does not opt for the next (harsher) disciplinary measure until he believes that the former one is ineffective.

Taken To The Woodshed - Domestic Discipline

We’ve evolved into a mutually and consensual agreement where she will give me a real domestic discipline spanking for offenses we’ve both deemed spank-able offenses. It was a spanking to remember but I also remember being grateful that I had a safeword as a way out. When the end of the strap, kind of sort of wraps around the butt and catches just the side of your butt…OUCH!This is not just a matter of not being selfish and petulant or obstinate and stubborn but we all change as we grow older and as our circumstances and our life conditions change. He applied at least 20 strokes of the wooden paddle and I had to count and thank him for each one of the strokes. What if he has been loving and communicating et all, and seeing if there’s an issue, but she still refuses?

Husband must follow steps to discipline wife in order

Sometimes it is just the belt, sometimes it is a paddle or water soaked cane (one of the worse things ever), and sometimes it is a combination of 2 or 3 of her meanest implements. Maintaining this discipline establishes my authority and control since Alice never actually wanted to be a girl although she has become accustomed to it over time. Group Black's collective includes Essence Opens a new window, The Shade Room Opens a new window and Naturally Curly Opens a new window. Much of the female lifestyle has now become ingrained in her day to day life without any need for me to get involved.Then it more than ever is time for the husband to assert himself as the Head of Household and unless he without hesitation reacts by disciplining the wife severely and reminding her of her place he will lose her respect and trust in him. She was practicing on the bed and decided to use the hassock for more of a downward swing which she also practiced on because the strop was very heavy! He knows what is coming is WICKED and as he’s told me many times before, it is “the most painful thing he’s ever felt.

Love, Trust, Respect and Obey - Domestic Discipline Online

Since you obviously control the money in your home because women are worthless and can’t possibly earn their own, show her that the lavish life you provide can be taken away if she doesn’t comply. If I do feel that punishment is needed it could range from her having to stand in the corner, being made to sit on the floor and removing her clothing through to actual spanking. Anyway…we progressed to a wonderful session of love making with her rubbing her fingers over the welts she gave me, formed by the end of the strap on the side of my butt. At the time I bought it, my Wife and I were doing fun spankings and I thought this would provide for a great scene or role play as well as test my pain threshold. So she told me that you were going to make a strap like that but with a handle so she could swing it easily.

My Wife was quite pleased with my purchase and took it out of the bag, and admired it on the way home. When I got to our room, I saw that she had taken down one of the pictures on the wall and used that hook to hang the razor strap on. After a trip to the woodshed, I’ll have some bruises for about a week afterwards and if I got any lashes with the cane or switch, I’ll have marks from those for 3+ weeks. Unless the wife experiences consistency and steadiness in expectations and demands she will be confused and uncertain and her respect and compliance diminish. I would love to make a good punishment strap or belt for you both for free, just because I enjoy your site so much.

Public Punishment - Domestic Discipline Online

I’ve swatted my husbands a few times with my sandal or even my belt but I have gotten only short lived results. From a spankee’s perspective…if you’re consenting to a punishment spanking to improve behavior and/or attitude, it SHOULD be something that will be effective and last for a good month or two. That said, we started this blog to share a little about our lifestyle as it pertains to domestic discipline between two consenting adults. I am working on a story set in a fictional modern country whose prison system has adopted the use of judicial CP. It still means getting one of the worst spankings of my life, but now she’s expanded beyond just using the belt and razor strap.Women have wants and needs just like men, and demanding they put those aside and turn themselves into a human penis receptacle isn’t exactly my idea of a good time.