I’m sure there are mixed opinions on spankings in the ABDL world, and if you want them to be part of your ABDL experience. Some adult babies and diaper lovers love the concept of punishment from Mommy and some really prefer a soft, encouraging Mommy. What do you think about spankings? Comment below! Narrator: "Ok, well go say hello, trust me, they are here to meet you. And most are going to feel just as shy as you are! Go Go Go say hello!"

The primary reason for this next-level care is because ABDLs long-for and thrive for "care" themselves. The most significant advantage of ageplay towards relationships is that the practice of regression educates and enhances knowledge of nurturing and caregiving. This knowledge, which stands outside of judgment, can significantly enrich the ABDL's emotional connection and support within relationships (interpersonal or professional). How would I let my closest friend know I support them as an ABDL? Others enjoy the feeling of adult diapers but have no medical need for them. There are various psychological theories as to why this is, including imprinting and James Money’s lovemap theory. Even so, there isn’t much research into the area. Where do ABDLs wear adult diapers? Anywho, I kinda want to do something there involving abdl that I wouldn’t normally be able to do either here in my hometown, or with my girlfriend. I’m not even sure what I want to do but I want to feel that thrill, if you know what I’m talking about. Obviously I don’t want to get arrested or anything, so I’m not gonna walk around in just a tshirt and a diaper. But are there other things I can do that minimally will give me that thrill? These are just a few examples I’ve come up with so far: If you have a Mommy or someone who encourages your little side, you can ask for encouragement to wet your pants. I have given many littles and babies encouragement to pee themselves. It can help to have a voice of guidance remind you that inside you are a pants wetter. ABDL and Wetting forums like omorashi.org are also great for getting encouragement from others. Then you can report to Mommy or to someone else to tell them about the experience. If you want this encouragement from me consider become a patron on my patreon, since this is my main way of communicating with littles.ABDL's are in all careers, demographics and span the globe. ABDL is a large sub-community that has managed to cultivate families of normative acceptance around the lifestyle. So, then how common is ABDL in the world? Extremely common. One of the biggest things that gets in the way of fully enjoying your diapers is your own mind. I talk to many people who know that the ABDL lifestyle is part of them, but who struggle to fully accept it. There can be negative feelings – of shame, uncertainty or embarrassment. However – all of these feelings are just feelings – and you can overcome them. There are a few thoughts that may help you overcome shame when you pursue your ABDL lifestyle. Everyone has something that gives them comfort. I have enjoyed the freedom that i felt about just being able to wet myslef as and when i pleased, and not having to worry about going to the toilet. It's felt kinky and fun wearing diaper at places i wouldnt of expected, like when i went to a festival in a diaper, or when i wore diapers to a concert (Which at this one i was in the standing area, and some people defintly felt my diaper) What that thing is varies from person to person. However everyone has a basic right to enjoy their life and have hobbies. You have a right to enjoy your ABDL lifestyle. As long as you are not hurting anyone, there is nothing wrong with finding comfort in diapers or regression. Looking for comfort and relaxation is part of being human. That’s nothing to be ashamed about! Everyone has parts of themselves outside of social rules. Then, I talked to my sister and watched as she got so excited for me. Listening to her be happy for me, made it easier for me to be happy for myself. There was no hypnosis or overt guidance. It was simply that her optimism for my decision was contagious. It was a form of indirect guidance. Gaining certainty

The real question is, "why do you want to know?" or, "Are you interested and curious about the practice of ageplay?" Many people find their love of ageplay very young or in their early twenties due to many factors. Knowing about the ABDL tendencies of your best friend has nothing to do with whether they trust you. The beautiful part about relationships is that long-lasting relationships are built over time through the smallest of moments. If you happen to be close to an ABDL, they will eventually tell you if they feel safe, and your trust is unwavering over a long period. So you want to wet your pantsin public for the very first time! You have thought about wetting yourself in public but have been too scared to do it. You’ve daydreamed about letting your warm pee stream down your pants. Maybe you even like the idea that a nearby stranger sees you potty dancing until you can’t hold your bladder anymore. Does this sound like you? If you’re not sure if you like the idea, listen to my free Wet Your Pants Illusion. This hypnosis file leads you to imagine wetting yourself in a park by accident!But then things took and unexpected turn and he found himself in a situation he never would have imagined and having to rely on Derek more than ever. Can he learn to adapt to his new role in life? Language: English Words: 23,658 Chapters: 14/? Comments: 75 Kudos: 550 Bookmarks: 100 Hits: 31,671 All I’m saying is that I believe people should dress appropriately in public around non-consenting individuals. If your shirt rides up and your diapers’ waistband shows, o well, that’s natural with clothes. If you can see a little bit of a diaper bulge, o well, it happens. If you go out in a onesie, & diaper with shorts on over, you have a cute outfit. But when your diaper is on full display, that’s no longer a stylistic choice and it crosses the line of involving others without their consent.

Both hypnosis and the ABDL lifestyle are often seen as escapist. Hypnosis can lead you deep into trance, away from everyday life problems. The ABDL lifestyle brings the comforts of diapers, stuffies, and feeling little. It’s true that hypnosis can bring some element of escapism. But the truth is that it’s not so different from any other form of escapism. Whenever anyone sits down to watch a movie or read a book, they’re escaping their own life to be part of a different world. Sports, traveling, video games – many hobbies give us the chance to go somewhere else. It’s not bad to escape your problems. whether it’s through trance or through video games. In fact, ruminating on your problems is usually a recipe for depression. Trance Ch 1 — Damien runs out of money while playing poker with the Actor and the Colonel. He, responsibly, says he’ll fold, but his friends cajole him into making a non-monetary bet. Evidently he’s on a losing streak. In my hypnosis, my voice guides you into a specific direction, and you follow along, like watching a bubble float through the air. With each second that you follow the bubble, your other thoughts float away. Your mind focuses only on the ideas I tell you about – bed wetting, becoming incontinent in your diaper, or a wetting fantasy scenario. Then you find yourself living the fantasy, and following the guidance. You start to believe in a new version of yourself when in this guided trance. Hypnosis guides you away from other thoughts and towards something else. Doing what you want can be hard

Even if you’re just enjoying a fantasy through hypnosis you’re doing something positive for yourself. You’re letting yourself step away from your problems and focus on ideas that let you feel good and thrive. Experiencing your ABDL fantasies in a state of trance let’s you experience them more fully. It’s like daydreaming in HD. The deeper level of awareness and deeper sensory sensations make your daydream feel realer. Allowing yourself to daydream is not bad. In fact, daydreaming can lead to more creativity, self awareness and compassion. The place where you have your first wetting accident will be unforgettable. It will be the place where you found out for sure that you are a pants wetter. So where should you go? For your first accident choose a quiet, stress free place. AU where all the gems are robot AI being mass produced by a company. each gem has a specific job just like in the original. Language: English Words: 25,086 Chapters: 18/18 Comments: 11 Kudos: 154 Bookmarks: 13 Hits: 14,539 One of the bigger lifestyle changes – the permanent loss of bowel control can be hard to achieve. If you are new to ABDL you may wonder if it’s possible at all. It is possible! With some muscle training, behavior conditioning and hypnosis, anything is possible. This includes losing control of your muscles to the point that you wet and mess your diaper without even noticing.

You are going to have an accident. It’s inevitable. Accept that wherever you are going, you will make a puddle on the ground. If wetting your pants makes you feel little, accept this too. Maybe you have come close to having accidents in public already… but this time is the real deal.Hey everyone! Figured I'd share the events of a fun day I had maybe a year and a half ago at a local shopping mall, during which I got over my anxiety around public wetting! There are often zones where this is not allowed that you should take note of, but to give you an idea of this experience, imagine turning your house into a giant mansion with all your ABDL friends living in the same place with their own rooms for a weekend!