RELATED: You Are Worth It: 101+ Quotes On Putting Yourself First Unapologetic Quotes About Being Your Unique Self At the end of the day, you realize that people actually don’t care about your life as much as you think. Everyone is busy living their own lives to monitor yours and sometimes their harsh opinions are nothing but another conversation to them. You have to always know the difference between the ones who truly care about your life and the ones who pretend to be interested in it. Final Thoughts The matter of fact is most people are too busy worrying about what other people think of them to think about you. That’s the paradox, worrying about what people think is a waste of time and energy.

We should cultivate the ability to say no to activities for which we have no time, no talent, and which we have no interest or real concern. If we learn to say no to many things, then we will be able to say yes to the things that matter most.”– Roy Blauss When I hear about people living unapologetically, I sometimes think about the character, Randy Marsh, from South Park and his classic quote: “I’ll do what I want, I thought this was America!” to justify his terrible behavior. I find the best way to love someone is not to change them, but instead, help them reveal the greatest version of themselves.”- Steve MaraboliYou have to make your own decisions, can’t let other people’s voices be bigger than your own. 4. You attract the right people for you. There was a constant push and pull in their relationship that became repetitious and redundant. I totally tried to empathize with Fatima’s insecurities, her age, and being gun shy but there were moments of strength and resilience that contradicted the fragile woman that began to take shape throughout the course of the book. What is it that you love the most? And how can you incorporate aspects of that into your life as a whole so you’re “living the dream,” so to speak? Never mind what anyone else’s judgements or condemnation might be. Fatima has a lot going on she wants to fulfill her parents dreams of her becoming a pediatric doctor but also longs to be a successful author. On top of that she has to deal with betrayal from her friend and long term boyfriend. In comes Jaren a man she can share all her secrets and dreams with. They instantly fall for each while trying to navigate the spotlight and vindictive people in Jaren's inner circle. For example, if someone offers you some kind of food and you decline politely, they might try to encourage you to have some. “Just a bite,” or “Are you sure you won’t try some?” and if you’re sure, then “Why not?”

A poll was taken across hospitals, hospices, and nursing homes worldwide to get an idea of what dying people regret the most. And do you know what was number one on the list, across the board?They don’t teach you this in school, do they? All they teach you is how to “fit in,” and this can lead to a feeling of not knowing who you really are. By becoming unapologetically yourself, you will also build better, more meaningful relationships with them because they know and accept the real you. So, just be you. Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don’t matter, and those who matter don’t mind.”– Bernard Baruch You just do what you feel like doing with no reservations. 2. You start living life according to your own rules