Adding to the bars, the kit includes a host of matching tools like a breathable ball gag (the ball had holes for comfort), a studded soft flogger, a blindfold, and a collar with a leash. We’v also rounded up a few more cute and comfortable sets of sex cuffs great for beginners and experienced players. I’m a little freaked out by the idea of restraints. How can I make sure my partner and I both stay safe? Doggy, In doggy position, the receiver will keep their leg in their body which will make their ankles near their butt. With a spreading bar, you can keep your partner easily restrained in one position.

One thing to consider is its size. It’s has a roughly two feet by three feet footprint and this is not the type of thing that folds flat when not in use. You have to have space to dedicate to it, but if you’re building a home dungeon, it certainly has an intimidating look to it.

A spreader bar is a bondage device consisting of a rigid bar with cuffs or attachment points at each end. Its purpose in BDSM play is to restrict the movement of a person’s limbs, usually the wrists or ankles, by securing them to the ends of the bar. This creates a spread or exposed position, enhancing restraint and control during BDSM activities such as sex restraints. 2. Are spreader bars safe to use, and what precautions should be taken during use? These guidelines and standards aim to keep the content on Booking.com relevant and family-friendly without limiting expression of strong opinions. They are also applicable regardless of the sentiment of the comment. Below, we dive into different categories of sex furniture, including everything from pillows to sex chairs and versatile massage benches. You'll also find all-inclusive sex machines and absorbent sex blankets. “It’s only sex—don’t take it too seriously,” she says. “There’s so much pleasure out there to be had. Don’t feel intimidated, don’t be ashamed about it. Talk about it with your partner, and most of all, enjoy.” Now gather your blindfold, favorite vibrator, and flogger, because we’re going shopping—and it might get a little kinky.

Each review score is between 1-10. To get the overall score that you see, we add up all the review scores we’ve received and divide that total by the number of review scores we’ve received. In addition, guests can give separate ‘subscores’ in crucial areas, such as location, cleanliness, staff, comfort, facilities, value for money and free Wi-Fi. Note that guests submit their subscores and their overall scores independently, so there’s no direct link between them. This set also appears to come with an under-mattress bondage system, the type that hides underneath your mattress when not in use and then you can pull out the four cuffs from the four corners for some fast, low-effort bondage. That’s a great deal for the price as you can pay this much for that piece alone. The internal attachments can also take advantage of the Cowgirls rotation functions and the different stems included. Some stems are firmer and others have more give for a different feel depending on your preference.

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Located close to High Wycombe's train station in the town centre, The Secret Dungeon boasts free parking, Wi-fi, a media centre with the latest films and Sky TV, as well as a fantastic four-poster bed below a mirrored ceiling, a modern kitchen and bathroom with walk-in shower. Plus cosy under-floor heating, complimentary tea, coffee and soft drinks, which all add to our visitors' unique erotic experience. Yes, many spreader bars are adjustable, allowing for variations in length to accommodate different body sizes or preferences. Some bars have telescopic or detachable components, making them versatile and customizable based on the individual’s requirements. 4. Are there different types of spreader bars available, and what are their variations?

First, don’t do bondage with a person you don’t know well or trust, and agree on a safe word in advance. “A safe word — any word besides ‘no’ or ‘stop,’ basically — allows the bottom person to be in character if she likes; when it’s time to stop, the safe word takes them out of the fantasy scene and interjects real needs in a clear way,” Queen says. Shibari is, "geeky, very brainy, and it can be very intellectual," says Anna, who discovered it five years ago, towards the end of her PhD at UCL. "I was looking online for kinky activities and I found this event called Peer Rope London. I fell head over heels for it! I like the closeness — connecting and having a conversation with another person through physical movement. As humans, we crave to be touched, and that's what rope is," Anna explains. "You're touching another person, they're touching you and it feels nice." Not in the slightest. if the success of the 50 Shades franchise didn't prove that to you, there have been a series of studies that show how common these desires and practices really are. The Stand and deliver in which the receiver’s legs are cuffed into the bar and he/she bends over a table/bench or sofa for support. The spread bar will keep both legs separated making strokes easy from behind.Swear words, sexual references, hate speech, discriminatory remarks, threats, or references to violence It also has a hole on top of it where you can insert a vibe or other toy and you can use it as a mountable chair or stand it up on its side flat against the headboard.

This Spanking Bench is made right here in the USA using real hardwood and metal, so if you’re looking for a substantial piece that you can trust to be sturdy, this is for you. The big one. The world’s largest fetish and fantasy club, started in 1990, a visit to Torture Garden (affectionately referred to as TG) is considered a rite of passage for those wishing to explore and expand their sexual horizons. That’s where inflatable toys like Dark Magic come in. It inflates into this lounger (a foot pump is provided to blow it up) which holds the thrusting motor exactly where you need it. There are bolsters built in to prop your legs up and there is space on either side of these bolsters for your legs if you want to flip over on your knees.

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While they all share the general design of a straight bar with restraints, there are some features that will differentiate which bar is a better fit for you. Anyone else who spots something suspicious can always report it to our Customer Service team, so our Fraud team can investigate.